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One Night Stand Expectations – To not? Or make it Hot?

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Ah, the infamous one night stand!  One night stands can be absolutely awesome or a complete disaster.  The first, and probably most important thing to remember, is that you’re committing to sex and nothing else.  If the relationship progresses into friends with benefits, or even a relationship that’s great! But don’t go into a situation like this expecting to meet your future spouse.  One night stands are just for fun. And they can be A LOT of fun!

First off, be prepared.  Any time you meet up with a stranger and decide to go home with them (or take them home) you want to be safe.  Let someone you trust know where you are and what you’re doing. Give them a time that you’ll check in and if you don’t text/call they’ll know you might be in trouble.  We also recommend avoiding any bondage play with a stranger as you don’t know if you can trust them yet. And always have a condom in your purse or your wallet. Practice safe sex!  You should always have your own car with you so you don’t have to depend on anyone for a ride if you decide you want to leave.

Now for the fun stuff!  One night stands can be a great way to explore your sexuality without feeling embarrassed.  For example, maybe you have a kink you’ve been wanting to try, but would be embarrassed bringing up in front of a serious partner or other friend with benefits.  This can be the perfect opportunity! If your one night stand judges you…who cares? You never have to see them again!

Get-to-know-you games can also be really hot.  Ask your partner a question about yourself and make them guess what the answer is.  For every wrong answer they must give you a kiss…after 5 wrong answers they have to start foreplay, and so on and if you feel really daring you could always instigate playing with sex toys.

It’s totally your decision if you want to stay the night.  If you do, you can have some more no-strings-attached fun in the morning!  If you’re not sure about all that, feel free to dip out after you get off.

If you two end up liking each other you can always exchange numbers for more hot sex and sex toy please in the future.  But the best part? You don’t have to!